Tree of Remembrance Memorial

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Name: Tree of Remembrance Memorial
Date: December 11, 2018
Time: 5:30 PM - 8:00 PM PST
Event Description:
The Holidays are tough as you journey with grief and we want to help. You, your family and friends are invited to join us for a time to remember and honor those who have passed away. In both The Dalles & Hood River we have a special evening planned with messages of hope and live music to help you honor and remember your loved ones during the difficult holidays. You can pick up an ornament in advance or the evening of to place on our Tree of Remembrance. These ornaments can be personalized for your loved one. If you are unable to attend you may visit our office & place an ornament on the tree after November 30th and pick up in January (or take it home after the service). We will look forward to seeing you on this special evening in either The Dalles or Hood River. 

Getting through the holidays The pressures around the holidays can be even more challenging after the death of a family member. Here are some tips to consider that may help as you navigate the challenges, to help you work through these decisions together as a family.
1. Plan ahead. Anxiety and anticipation leading up to the season can be more intense than the actual holidays. Planning ahead can help lower anxiety. Once you’ve decided what you can and can’t do, share your decisions with friends and family.
2. Don’t let other people determine what you “should” or “shouldn’t” do. You don’t have to do what others think you should do. Give yourselves the right to do what you want to do!
3. Accept limitations. You may not be able to do all the things you’ve always done. Which aspects of the holidays are especially challenging for your family? Consider scaling back or changing things you may have done in the past, and consider what has been or might be especially enjoyable or meaningful to your family.
4. Celebrate different feelings and preferences. Involve your family in discussions about what they would like to do. You and your family may decide to keep everything the same or change everything – or you may fall somewhere in-between.
5. Be informed before attending events. Find out who will be there, how long it’s expected to last, and whether you need to do anything to prepare for it. As a family, brainstorm ways you want to respond to questions or offers of help from others.
6. Ask for help, even when it’s hard to do. If it feels right, allow people to help in concrete ways such as cleaning, cooking, baking, shopping, childcare, and running errands. Sometimes we worry about burdening others, but more often than not, they are eager to help.
7. Find time for rest. The holidays are physically and emotionally draining, especially when grieving. Encourage rest, plan for healthy eating and hydration.
8. Find ways to remember and honor the person who died. Here are some ideas to consider:
• Light a memorial candle. Invite friends/family to share memories.
• Write a card or letter to the person who died.
• Write memories on strips of paper and use them to create a paper chain.
• Hang a special decoration in memory of the person, such as a wreath or stocking. If a stocking is used, family members can place cards or pieces of paper with memories inside.
• Buy a gift the person would have liked and donate it to a charity.
• Giftwrap a box and make an opening in the top for family and friends to share written memories. At a special time, the box can be unwrapped and the memories shared.
• Set a special memorial place at the table during a holiday meal.
• Create a memorabilia table or corner where you can place photos, and any other kinds of mementos.

 
Location:
204 E. 4th Street, The Dalles, Oregon

 
Date/Time Information:
5:30 P.M., Tuesday, December 11, 2018
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